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Women Are Difficult To Live With, Really!

Many men depend on women for most of their lives, but study claims that women are the most difficult family members. Though women may resort to whining, nagging and controlling in relationships, according to the study, it’s for a good reason.

Researchers at the University of California, Berkeley and Bar-Ilan University in Israel have discovered an inconvenient truth about our female family members. According to survey of 1,100 respondents who described more than 12,000 relationships, Wives, sisters and mothers are more likely to be the most difficult people in our lives.

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The study included people ranging from their early 20’s to 70’s who live in the San Francisco Bay Area. More than half of the respondents were female.  In general, the study found that, on average, we consider about 15% of our relationships as difficult or annoying.

Female family members may be disproportionately considered difficult because they’re more socially invested in relationships.

In time, men have lost their masculinity, because they are always seeking approval from women folks in their lives. Being masculine doesn’t mean man has to be inconsiderate. But you need not be “pleaser”. Be on alert, if you are not “pleaser” man, you may be labeled as being a jerk. Being yourself (whether man or woman) is all about being you, finding your voice and being yourself.

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Simply put, as a man, you can’t ask for permission to be the man you want to be. At the same time, you must continue to honor and cherish women who are in your lives. It is not about controlling anyone, but it is about not being controlled by anyone.

The study was conducted with both men and women in the San Francisco Bay Area — Nancy Pelosi country. The UC-Berkeley has confirmed that leftist women are making everyone miserable.

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Of course, the study may not have been necessary as most men know that but dare acknowledge it.

Is Marriage Or Love Forever?


It is often said that courtship period is “falling in love” stage as marriage is “falling out of love” stage. There may be truth to that. Perhaps, love maybe forever, but life comes in the way.

That is just it. The days of courtship the emphasis is on each other. You long for each other. You want each other. But once you get married, often, it becomes a life. That is where love takes backseat as you focus on “life” together. Yes indeed, you may repeat “I love you” but over the time that is just routine or necessary ritual that you have got accustomed to.

How To Keep Love Alive?

Prior to marriage there is an anticipation that marriage ensures blissful butterflies and rainbows. Surely, that is an exaggeration, but you are likely to embark the brutal reality that life after marriage to be as hard as it really is. There may be many reasons why that might happen. But major contributing factor is that marriage is being part of a team and you must learn to work together. In nutshell, love is being together whereas marriage is working together. Who really likes work?

The current contract – ‘until death’ – might have worked when people didn’t live all that long; or when many women died in childbirth, freeing men to marry multiple times (which they did); and when men of means needed women to cook, clean and take care, and women needed men for financial security. Many long-term marriages are loveless and sexless, and sometimes full of anger and resentments. But if they make it until a spouse dies – success!

How To Keep Love Alive?

So, what will work, you ask.

Perhaps the concept of temporary marriage may be the way to go. American paleontologist E D Cope wrote in his book, The Marriage Problem (1888), that marriages should start with a five-year contract that either spouse could end or renew with a further 10- or 15-year contract and, if all still went well after that, a permanent contract.

In recent time the concept of “beta marriage” is floating around. In such a type of marriage, couples would commit to each other for a certain number of years after which they could renew or just walk out. Reportedly, 10 per cent of first marriages don’t even make it past five years, marriage contract with renewable clause maybe the way to go. Some say, it may be better than current divorce system.

How To Keep Love Alive?

The essence of being together is love and that is what gets lost in the marriage system as the “being together” is guaranteed. That is when the “falling” out of love stage sets in. It happens over the course of painful trials and tribulations. It happens as lies, disappointments, failures emerge in “marriage” life. In time, couples lose communication and intimacy only to discover that they are strangers leaving together.

Ironic as it may be, in marriage you may have signed up for working through anything. However, what you didn’t sign up for was working through anything without love.
Love needs to be powerful element in a relationship. You choose to love your partner. Since you chose to love, you chose to stay. True indeed that marriage is not easy. Giving yourself to someone is not easy. But when there is love for one another, life (marriage) is series of happenings.

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How To Spend Smarter?

Would you like to have money?

The obvious answer is YES. The real solution is to make more money than you spend. Interestingly, no matter how much you make, you will find ways to spend. That is where the problem is- you need to spend smarter.

It is best to address money issues quicker. Money is the number one cause of stress in the United States. Not surprisingly, money is the top reason for divorce. But money issues can be resolved, because most people make dumb money mistakes.

Dan Ariely, a professor of behavioral economics at Duke University, has a new book out that explains some of the problems we’re prone to when it comes to moolah and what we can do about them. The book is Dollars and Sense: How We Misthink Money and How to Spend Smarter. Few highlights are listed here.

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On Sale Signs Are The Devil

Simply do not pay attentions to “On Sale” signs. Most stores (online stores included) have high-markup price for each merchandise to begin with; so, when the merchandise is marked down, you are not necessarily getting a bargain. The marketing strategy of “on sale” is designed to simply dumb down your decision-making process. When an item is “on sale,” you are likely to act more quickly. Beware of comparisons with bonuses and specials.
So, focus ought to be on what the thing costs not how big a discount you are getting.

Extra Money Is Not Bonus

It is very common for you to get extra money by doing overtime at your work, getting bonus at work, or from winnings from casino, etc. You are likely to spend that money on unwanted stuff because that money is different. NO WAY, money is money.

People are likely to spend something like their salary on “responsible” things like paying bills, because it feels like “serious money.” On the other hand, money that feels fun—like $300 million in casino winnings—is likely to be spent on fun things, like more gambling.
Surprisingly, many people treat a tax refund as a “bonus” that they can have fun with. In reality, tax is not a “bonus” money, but it was your money to begin with. The government had taken an interest-free loan from you when you got your paycheck.

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This attitude is termed as “emotional accounting.” Rationally, a dollar is a dollar. But as rationality-challenged humans, we feel the source of the money affects how we should use it. Really?

Paying Cash Curtails Spending

Paying cash really hurts because it creates true awareness of spending within your thinking process. Believe it or not, marketing folks have figured out to reduce your pain, by letting you use credit cards. Through studies, marketing folks know that people are not only more willing to pay when they use credit cards, but they make larger purchases, leave larger tips, are more likely to underestimate or forget how much they spent, and make spending decisions more quickly.

All in all, your purchasing is made painless process. The credit cards, gift cards, casino chips and nearly all online shopping is a financial opiate and dramatically reduces the pain that keeps your bank account flush.

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So whenever possible, use cash. You may feel the pain, but you will not be stressed later.

Here’s the easy way to save money as stated in the book:

  • “On Sale” signs are the devil: “Relative comparisons” mess with your head. Focus on the end price, not how good a “deal” it is.
  • It’s not a “bonus.” Money is money: How you got the cash should not affect how you spend it. Saying that “bonus” money doesn’t count feels good but being broke feels very bad.
  • Use cash more often: Make spending painful and you’ll spend less. (Using cash is simpler than having a friend punch you in the face whenever you whip out your credit card.)
  • “Fair” is a four-letter word: Focus on value. The plight of moral justice in the economic universe can wait until after the electrician gets your lights back on.
  • Try a “Ulysses Contract”: Send me the deed to your house. If you don’t have more money in your savings account two months from now, I keep the deed. See? Saving is easy.
  • Drop Anchor: The only way to not be influenced by prices is to influence yourself ahead of time with other prices.

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You are limited when it comes to earning more money, but surely you are bombarded with many ways to not only spend what you earn now, but against your future earnings by means of debt to the credit card companies. Learn to monitor your money today, so you will not be ruined by the credit card companies.


It Is Clock- Not Calories -When It Comes To Diet



Talk about confusion when it comes to diet plan. The diet plans are all over when it comes to managing your weight. Is it dependent on how much calories you intake? Is dependent on shape of you body? Is it dependent on your ethnicity? Are you confused?

Now you need one more factor- calories do not matter but it is timing cycle that counts.
That’s the concept behind time-restricted feeding diet, or TRF diet, a strategy increasingly being studied by researchers as a tool for weight-loss, diabetes prevention and even longevity.

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Satchidananda Panda, a professor at Salk Institute for Biological Studies in San Diego, first tracked the effects of time-restricted feeding in mice. In 2015, he expanded his studies to include humans.

The findings, published in the journal Cell Metabolism, showed that when eight overweight people who naturally ate for 15-plus hours a day restricted their eating to a 10-hour window for 16 weeks, they lost 4% of their weight. A year later, they reported sticking to the plan, even though they didn’t have to, and had kept the weight off.

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In TRF diet, you can eat whatever you want and as much as you want—just not whenever you want. Daily food intake should be limited to a 12-hour window, and ideally cut down to eight to 10 hours. But you can pick the hours you want to eat.

Despite a lack of dietary restrictions, people following TRF diet end up consuming fewer calories and lose weight, according to studies and experts. Preliminary evidence also shows other health benefits of fasting for 12 hours or more, including lower blood pressure and improved glucose levels, and physiological changes linked to slowing the aging process.

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Dr. Panda is working on a new, larger clinical TRF trial of 150 firefighters. Funded by the U.S. Department of Homeland Security, the study is a collaboration with Pam Taub, a cardiologist and associate professor of medicine at the University of California San Diego Health System. Dr. Taub is also conducting a separate study in which UCSD patients with metabolic syndrome restrict eating to 10 hours a day. Preliminary data show weight loss and improved fasting glucose levels.

TRF diet is basically form of intermittent fasting. TRF diet focuses on when to eat rather than what to eat. Limiting the hours, you eat each day may help you consume fewer calories. It may also provide health benefits, including weight loss and improved heart health and blood sugar levels.

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An example of time-restricted eating is if you choose to eat all your food for the day in an 8-hour period, such as from 10 a.m. to 6 p.m. The remaining 16 hours each day are the fasting period, during which no calories are consumed. This same schedule would be repeated every day.

Most people eat from the time they wake up until the time they go to bed. Switching to TRF diet may cause you to eat less. However, it is possible some people may eat more in short duration of TRF diet. However, one study found that when healthy adult men limited their eating to about a 10-hour window, it reduced the number of calories they ate each day by about 20%.

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Is Relationship Web Of Lies?




As I was reading numerous profiles on online match making sites, what stood out to me was that honesty was the most sought after criteria for most women. Though I do not doubt that they are sincere in what they are seeking, but I pondered if they were honest themselves. Starting with their profile pictures, I can only say that it was far from “honest” representation.

I wonder if honesty is really crucial in a relationship. When you think about it, being close with someone means it is about caring and sharing. Truth be told, relationship also involves lots of hiding and lying as partners and in time both become master manipulators. There may not be any malice intended but simply, ultimate reckoning that often truth hurts. If you care for your partner, you do not want to hurt your partner, so you lie- often referred to as “white” lie!

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Relationships are built around simultaneous and yet opposite needs to be independent and yet be intimate. Thus this is where conflicts arise among couples. It’s a power struggle between these two needs, hashed out and decided for the first time between two individuals, with two separate ideas of the world, as they come together to form a bond. In a relationship, there’s a constant power struggle between these two ideas and these two opposing needs, as they merge into one story, that is, their relationship- thus often, honesty takes back seat in most relationships.

Can you imagine telling your current partner that your ex was very hot? In all likelihood, you will tell you partner “you are hot”! Your rationalization is that your partner needs to know based on current perspective. So it is possible, though it may not be truth, but not necessarily a lie!

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You are about to get going to an event. You are likely to hear, “I am almost ready”. Often that “almost” turns out to be 15 to 30 minutes. Who is counting? As a matter of fact, if you were to count, it will not matter. You accept the lie and move on!

Back to your past relationship, you know there were many good moments. But could you really share that with current partner? If you were to do that, you will be accused of living in the past. So you resort to an attitude that there was nothing much in that relationship. Perhaps a worst lie, but it is worth it to maintain peace and tranquility.

Most common situation is when your partner asks whether partner’s best friend is hot. Imagine telling the truth, you will be accused of eyeing your partner’s best friend. You will not admit it. In this case truth will not “Free” you.

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When it comes to sex, truth may not be told. Though comparison should not be made, it is likely your partner wants to know about the performance. You want to keep your partner happy, so you lie and sat “you are the best!” I even tried the neutral approach by saying that I do not compare. Needless to say, my response was not appreciated.

Surely, there are millions of lies in any relationship, I pointed few of them. It just so happens to be that relationship is based on foundation of millions of tiny, little and sometimes even big lies.

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If you do not believe that, then you are lying to yourself.

Equality Not Essential For Happy Marriage

 

It appears that today’s folks are preoccupied with equality. The chances are very high most can’t define what equality means. At best, in the area of relationship, most will define it as 50-50. The question arises, which 50?

Men and women who pursue path of conventional gender roles are perceived negatively. Americans are forever being told that “gender equality”— which is no longer defined as equal opportunity but as male and female interchangeability—is the only road to a happy life.

Simply put, just because times change the basics of life exist and are not likely to change. For example, even today women (unless woman is Femi-Nazi) consider giving birth is a woman’s magnificent accomplishment. Thankfully, her first instinct is to provide for that child physically and emotionally; while man’s first instinct is to protect and to provide for that child.

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As society has undergone economic transformation, man and woman are capable of being breadwinners and full-time parents. But that does not mean they are able to perform the tasks with equal fervor. Men and women are not interchangeable beings, pure and simple.
Researchers Karen Kramer and Sunjin Pak found that when women’s paychecks increased, they reported more symptoms of depression. But the opposite effect was found in men: their psychological well-being was highest when they were the primary wage-earners.

New research at University of Illinois examined data on nearly 1,500 men and 1,800 women between the ages of 52 and 60 and found that couples who resist traditional gender roles, or who shoot for a so-called equal marriage, are less happy than those who swim with the tide.

These findings certainly defy the cultural narrative. Americans are forever being told that “gender equality”— which is no longer defined as equal opportunity but as male and female interchangeability—is the only road to a happy life.

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Sharing tasks in the routines of life has nothing to do with “equal’ but with capability of each individual and their contributions in nurturing their thriving relationship. Human nature doesn’t change just because society does.

That is not to say no married couple can successfully navigate a role reversal. Even today, approximately 30 percent of married women with children choose not to be employed. It is natural instinct for most women to focus their life on family- her children and her partner.

It is not so much that women depend on men but natural longing to fulfill mother’s role. Sounds totally political incorrect, but it is what it is.

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If you believe that that marriage is an equal partnership, then you are likely on path of eventual divorce and pain. Real marriage is not an equal partnership.  It’s not a partnership at all.  It’s a merger, a permanent joining to create something new. It ought to be a merger based on love, trust, respect and honor.

The research from the University of Illinois makes it clear that societal attitudes may have changed, but human nature has not. Perhaps it’s time we recognize the nature’s way.

How To Retire Wealthy, Healthy and Happy?



Are you too old to start business?

As a baby boomer, you are probably asking that question.

Just because you are a baby boomer, your role need not be limited to just being dad, grandpa (mom or grandma). You may have aged, but you are also wiser.
As matter of fact, we are not dead yet. Did you know that boomers (born between 1946-1964) have been forming businesses at faster pace than any other generations- especially younger ones.

The reasons are simple indeed:

  •  Boomers come from a self-reliant generation that’s not afraid of hard work
  • – Boomers have a lifetime of experience they want to apply in their
    own businesses
  • – 50 (even 60!) is the new 30!

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The great news is, this has to be the best time ever to start a business. Because the internet has made the whole world our marketplace and it has made being in business simple with many auto features. All you need is laptop and Wifi.

Being boomer, you can relate to making an efforts and being focused. That is an essence of any business and more so for online business.

Interestingly, as a baby boomer you have experienced life over the years and you are at the age with full of wisdom. You are able to teach the new generation how they can use the tools to enrich others. There is a saying that when you give man a fish, you feed him for a day; when you teach him how to fish, you will feed him rest of his life.

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That is the beauty. The younger generation need folks like boomers to guide them in a direction to instill values of efforts and dedication. It is about being focused and parlaying of knowledge of how to be in business and succeed. And you are at right place.

Furthermore, the opportunity will also benefit you as you will be rewarded handsomely. In essence you will be retiring healthy, wealthy and happy.

That’s because this business is perfect for:

  • Retirees who aren’t content occupying the rocking chair or the golf course.
  • People who have given years to corporations, who now want to enjoy
    their families and still make great money.
  • Folks who put their passions on hold and now want time to pursue them.

For any Boomer reading this who isn’t ready to hang it up, or IS ready
for a “second act” of lifestyle freedom, fun and financial prosperity,
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How To Fix You?



As we journey through life events can throw curves that we did not anticipate.  But most of us do the best we can. In a relationship, struggles can be compounded as you “no longer have to deal with struggles of your own but you are also burdened with the struggles of your partner.

The relationship may seem to begin with rosy outlook, but quickly you learn that it goes through its peaks and valleys.  Then suddenly you may be handed with a crisis that may create havoc in life so much so there is no more “your” life.  You are often left to wonder if there is any more hope left for the future.

It is essential that at this stage you learn to focus on important things.  Do not ponder on what future may look like but focus day to day.

No More Expectations

You are likely to live life with full of expectations- not only for you, but for your family, for your partner.  Tough as it may be, you need to let go of expectations.  What you will notice in the process that you have let go of the pain and anger.  When you let go of the pain and anger, you allow love in.

Make Time For YOU

Sounds so simple, but you are likely to forget YOU as you are too busy being a partner, being a parent, being employee.  Your most likely defense will be, “I do not have time.”  Well, you will need to find to focus on you.  You need to find time to allow yourself the space to attain nirvana- state of feeling balanced.

Laugh a Little (Lot)!

In time of crisis, nothing seems to go right, who can laugh, you say.  True indeed, laughter may not make crisis disappear, but it provides needed relief.  It is often said that laughter is the best medicine.  Even when succumbed to despair, a simple laughter eases the pain and inner soul finds relief.  Sometimes all you can do is learn to laugh at yourself.  There are funny moments in every day.  Find them and laugh a little.

Do Not Let Struggle Define You

It is so easy to be defined by the struggles you face.  You may be experiencing the struggles, but they are not you.  You are not a victim.  Your struggles are temporary phase to strengthen you.  Overcoming the struggles will turn out to be unique experiences to make you into even better person.

Yes, circle of your life comprises of many people who are precious to you.  But they have their own journey in their life.  Your struggles are yours, just as their struggles are theirs.  You are willing to lend helping hands but not at your expense.  Despite all the closeness you may feel, You only have You!

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How Not To Be Victim Of Cheating In Relationship?

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Sometimes just loving may not be enough to hold your partner. You may be wondering if there is a way to prevent your partner cheating on you.

Unfortunately, there isn’t anything you can do to ensure your partner will not cheat on you. But if you constantly worry about being cheated, that is likely to drive your partner away from you. Your constant fear may lead your partner to think you do not trust your partner. Trust is positively strong element in relationship. There is nothing more toxic that not trusting your partner.

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It is possible that in your previous relationship, you may have been a victim of cheating. But not all relationships encounter cheating. It is essential that analyze your earlier relationships to ensure that you are selective in selecting your partner. You can seek help of therapists or read books for healing and learning to trust again.

The brutal reality is that you have to accept that you could get cheated again. And should that happen, it is best not to blame yourself. Surely, it will not be pleasant but you know you will survive. In time, you will learn to love again. In time, heart heals.

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There are ways to bolster your emotional and physical connection so your partner will want to stay with you. The simple essence of relationship is being connected to each other. The connection can only be enhanced when there is intimacy. The simple basic approach is to desire and to be desired by each partner.

The best way to enhance relationship is to communicate via Language of Lust and Language of Desire. These methods provide ways for awesomely intimate relationship only to enhance emotional bonding.

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Never again have communication issues when you master Language of Lust and Language of Desire. 

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Language of Lust To Trigger Her Hot Buttons

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Perhaps you are envisioning a beautiful playmate’s body dancing through your imagination, right!

But seriously, to be able to trigger woman’s hot button has nothing to do with her body but her mind. To be able to get to her body, you must be able to tickle her mind.

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What needs to be understood is that sex is all about entanglement with the body, but actual passion begins in her mind. It is the language of lust unlocks her sexual imagination. Enhance her sexual imagination to enjoy her physical intimacy.

The common mistake men make is that they think it is all about their performance. Not at all. It is your language of lust that will make her think of you as the best she ever had.
If you want to be her sexual super hero, you will need to super charge her emotions. You need to make her feel sexually irresistible and you need to adore her.

There is unique technique known as mastering language of lust. The technique begins with what you say and how you make her feel. You need to understand that as a man you are all about being physical, but to your woman it is about emotions. Stir her emotions with passionate lingo and she is yours to have and hold.

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Women are aware that her value is based on her appearance. But in essence her sexuality is what makes her woman that she is. She may be sexually confidant woman but she fears about how she shares her body, who she shares with and how she looks sharing it.

For her, encounter with you has one main goal she wants to be your sex goddess. All you have to do is to create that safe place for her to relax and connect through the language of lust so she will be engaged with you in totality.

So what is the language of lust, you ask.

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There are few specific phrases that captivate woman’s attention and stir her emotions. But note that there has to be sincerity as you deliver these phrases via text or in person. It may be a good idea that initially you start with PG rated phrases.

  • You have me so turned on just thinking of you.
  • Your body is so beautiful, I love exploring every inch.
  • What are you doing to me? I can’t stop thinking about you.
  • Damn, I am one lucky man.
  • You turn me on like no other woman.
  • I love how much pleasure you give me.
  • You feel so amazing, you know that right?
  • I find you completely irresistible.
  • You have me crazy with desire for you.

And these are just a few examples. If you are ready to totally tap into her sexual imagination, be the Sex God of her dreams, and make her addicted to you, check out this quick video. 

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